When I made more room for asking and listening, I noticed that clients left my office more relaxed, even happier. My wonderful assistant noticed the difference too. She said it was like they had been at the spa rather than a divorce consultation!

I don’t have to make a better relationship happen. I can be present to the hopes, fears and values of the client in front of me, and support them in deciding what comes next.

I believe these agreements can begin with love: the values couples share, the commitments they’re making and the future they want to build together.

I did some research on trust and discovered some key descriptors for the many elements of trust.